uggggg cabbage

When I was in high school my friend Patrycja invited me to her house to hang out and have dinner.  Well,  dinner was this cabbage concoction all mushy and sulphur smelling, and I could'nt fuckin do it.  I felt absolutly  terrible, but I couldn't stop gagging,  fuck im almost gagging right now as I recall it. I could'nt even get one bite down. I had to pretend that I was feeling sick, to avoid eating it.  But to be honest, if my grandma made the same dish, I bet I could eat it and enjoy it.  Like if I made a burrito with refried beans myself, I'd have no issues with it, but if a stranger made a refried bean burrito, couldnt do it, looks too much like diareaah, fuck isnt that stupid?